New dad forced to watch birth of first baby on Zoom due to coronavirus after struggling through four rounds of IVF

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A MUM has revealed was forced to give birth alone with her partner watching on a video call due to the coronavirus pandemic.

Stephanie Gandelman, 34, from Jersey City, New Jersey, delivered their son Jake two weeks ago while husband Marty, 34, watched on a Zoom call from their sofa.

Marty Gandelman was forced to watch his son Jake be born on a video call

His wife Stephanie gave birth alone in hospital

The couple, who both struggle with fertility issues, had long awaited the magical moment having gone through four rounds of IVF and three miscarriages before the arrival of their son.

And so when the couple learned of coronavirus, Stephanie admitted it only made her more nervous.

Speaking on YouTube she explained: “I was honestly just waiting for another miscarriage to happen, I was just terrified that this pregnancy wasn’t going to end with me having a baby.”

Stephanie began quarantine two weeks before her due date and with social distancing restrictions in place, was forced to attend her final doctors appointments and ultrasounds alone.

Coronavirus restrictions meant that Marty was unable to join Stephanie and she had to wear a mask throughout labour

Marty first met his son Jake when he collected him from the hospital

But it wasn’t until Stephanie decided to be induced at 39 weeks the reality of how alone she would really be sunk in.

Four days before her induction, the couple received an email from their doctor explaining that spouses were not permitted to attend labour, delivery or postpartum.

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But while the news left Marty “really sad” Stephanie admitted that they were just focused on bringing a healthy baby into the world.

She continued: “In all honesty as long as my baby was safe that was all I kept thinking about, of course it saddened me that he wasn’t going to be there but it wasn’t the end of the world.”

The couple say that while they were "saddened" about the labour they were just happy to bring a healthy baby into the world — The couple say that while they were “saddened” about the labour they were just happy to bring a healthy baby into the world

Marty and Stephanie had four rounds of IVF before welcoming Jake

Leaving him with a to-do list, Marty dropped Stephanie off at the hospital, kissing her goodbye before driving back home again.

Once she was settled in the labour ward Stephanie, who had to wear a mask throughout her stay, then set Marty up on a Zoom call, dubbing him her “robot husband.”

Stephanie was induced on March 27, and Marty watched on a laptop screen as his son came into the world.

His birth was not an easy one with doctors forced to use forceps to deliver the boy, but Stephanie was delighted as doctors told her “he’s perfect.”

Jake is isolating with his parents in their New Jersey home

Stephanie says that Jake immediately went into "dad mode" — Stephanie says that Jake immediately went into “dad mode”

Marty came to collect his wife and son from the Mount Sinai Hospital, Manhatten, New York where he instantly went into “dad mode.”

Speaking to the Metro he said: “When I finally met Jake it was such a great feeling. ‘I gave him and kiss and a cuddle and then drove home to isolate away from everything.

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“It’s just the three of us at home and we haven’t had any visitors yet because of coronavirus.”

The couple have been unable to introduce their son to their parents which has been “hard” but they admit they are loving family life.

Stephanie told the Metro: “It wasn’t the perfect labor but we made it work.

“It feels perfect now to be home as a little family.”