A MUM has sparked a heated debate after revealing she charges her daughter £120 a month in rent – despite not needing the money.
Roxy, who goes by the username ‘roxreviews’ on TikTok, took to social media to ask other parents how much they charge their children, after noticing what she describes as a growing sense of “entitlement” in some people.
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Speaking to her followers about her current situation, the mum explained: “Now, unless you’re studying or saving for a house, there should be no adults living at home with their parents without contributing in some way.
“Be it cleaning, giving money for food or heat – you know, it’s not free.
“The cost of living is wild these days.”
Roxy went on to share examples of “grown men” earning more than their parents, “driving fancy cars” while refusing to contribute – though she admitted that, as a mother, she sometimes feels guilty for asking.
She continued: “If you respect your parents, you would not expect them to provide for your grown-up adult self.
“And for those who say, ‘I didn’t ask to be born’ – neither did your parents.
“When your kid is 40 years old and still sponging off you, then that’s on you.
“It’s just a bit of respect, to be honest.”
Roxy explained that her daughter will be saving money while paying rent, and she plans to help her save for her own place.
She concluded the video by saying: “If you’re working to save for a house or you’re studying and your parents can afford to support you, then yeah, fair enough – don’t pay anything.
“But if you’re just working and living at home, sponging off your parents, then you’ve got no respect, and it’s not on.”
The video quickly gained attention, with many users rushing to the comments section to share their thoughts.
One person wrote: “Wow. I never had to pay a penny to my parents while I still lived at home.”
Another added: “I personally couldn’t charge my kids.”
Roxy replied: “What if they were 30-year-olds sponging off you?”
The TikTok user responded: “I don’t think I could. I understand why people do, and no disrespect to them, but I’m probably too soft.”
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Morning Routine
Nighttime Preparation: Set out clothes for yourself and the kids, pack lunches, and organise backpacks before bed.
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Meal Planning
Weekly Meal Prep: Dedicate time each week to plan your meals to eliminate daily decision-making.
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Household Chores
Daily Laundry: Do a load of laundry every day to prevent a buildup of dirty clothes.
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Organisation
Family Command Centre: Set up a central hub with a calendar, to-do lists, and important documents.
Daily Decluttering: Spend a few minutes each day decluttering to maintain an organised home.
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Kid Management
Prepared Activity Bags: Have bags packed with essentials for various activities (e.g., swimming, sports).
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A third commenter said: “You’re their parents. Your job is to provide them with a safe space, no matter their age.”
Roxy replied: “Maybe so, but they should contribute towards their costs out of respect.”
Meanwhile, someone else shared: “I charge my son, who is 18, £200 a month – not to save for him, but to teach him that life comes with responsibilities. He’ll have to pay a lot more when he gets his own place.”
