According to figures, 68% of women have admitted to faking an orgasm with their partner.
And athough the female orgasm lasts slightly longer than a man’s, at least 68% of ladies experience a climax with a familiar partner.
Which means a lot of women still don’t reach the big-O during sexual activity.
Now to celebrate Female Orgasm Day, we spoke to an expert from Hims, a personal wellness brand, to discuss how women can overcome this.
“Partners can help their partners orgasm by more ways than just penetration.”
Capri Fiello
Capri Fiello, of Hims, told Daily Star Online: “Contrary to popular belief, partners can help their partners orgasm by more ways than just penetration.
“Experimentation with toys, roleplaying and erogenous zones can also help bring women to climax.
“There’s a clear disparity in the number of orgasms between men and women, but it isn’t just a female problem.
“Male partners should be receptive to feedback and experimentation so both partners can come to climax.”
SEX TIPS: Women who struggle to orgasm can benefit from these moves (Pic: GETTY)
Here are the best moves for a mind-blowing orgasm:
1. Clitoral stimulation
At least 37% of women report needing clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
To experience an orgasm, use an up-down or tapping motion with the fingers or a toy directly to the clitoris.
For oral sex, make sure your partner draws circles with his tongue around the clitoris, the hood and labia.
Then to reach the finish line, add or subtract pressure and speed to draw out the orgasm which should result in a more powerful climax.
KINKY: 68% of women fake an orgasm (Pic: GETTY)
2. Spooning sex
This position will allow you to combine penetration by a penis or toy with clitoral stimulation.
Use a vibrator, pillow or hand to stimulate the clit for double the pressure.
The clit will be engorged with the added stimulus and should lead to a stronger orgasm.
Alternatively, try other sex positions that allow easy clitoral access like reverse cowgirl or tabletop.
ORGASM: Women can enjoy time alone to reach an orgasm (Pic: GETTY)
3. Nipple-play
Use fingers, sucking or clamps to stimulate the nerves in the nipples, some women can just orgasm through just this, but it can make them wetter.
This method can feel even more powerful during menstruation.
4. Switching it up for multiple orgasms
The area of the last orgasm will likely be too sensitive for another orgasm so focus on a new area, or switch up your approach.
Try sandwiching the labia between your fingers and rubbing it over the clitoris to quickly orgasm again.
(Pic: DS)
5. Masturbation
At least 22% of women say they’ll never masturbate, but it can be a great source of self-exploration in order to determine what you like.
Consider using toys like a vibrator, dildo or butt plug to learn what stimulation will strengthen your orgasms with a partner.
